I'm going to vent a little here.
Its been the last few weeks that Connor has been in the horrible 3 stage.
When i say horrible stage i mean its where i need to walk away and cry cause i get so upset that he doesn't listen at all.
He is a great kid a really great kid, but he just knows how to push my button just at the right time for me to lose it. I don't want to sound like a bad mom cause i lose my patience So fast and so easy.
He throws these little fits where he is kicking and screaming when he dosent get his way, and when i get after him saying that he didnt need to act like that at all, and i explain why he didnt get his way. But when he finds out why he didnt get his way he freaks out again and i have to put him in bed till he calms down.
There are days that he is the best little kid in this whold world and then there are days that he his in the horriable stage. I just dont know how to handle it anymore. Somedays i just want to throw my hands in the air and let him do whatever he wants to, but i know i cant do that cause he will be a bigger butt then he already is, but i come to that point. I just really hope that i can get more patience and be more hard with him.
I know that he is 3 and will be like this just so he knows how far he can go before i lose my mind. But right now im loseing my mind and i dont know what to do anymore.
I need a little help to all the mommys out there. When your kids go through this stage what helped you.. Yes i know i need to get more patience but what do you do to get that.. Ugh...
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I think 3 years old is the hardest age. I seriously didn't think I'd survive my oldest going through the horrible 3!! Now Grant is in it too and it is very frustrating. I lose my patience too. It's very hard. But then they are the sweetest, cutest little things you've every seen and that helps to make it through the hard times. It helps me to put them in another room when they're having a fit. It helps them to calm down faster too when they can't see any reaction from me. Good luck Chelby! I keep reminding myself that Scotty got through it and Grant will too. Eventually!
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