How do you know?

Two of my good friends Jennie and Jaquie have posted a post asking

"How do you know"

How did you know that your spouse was the one for you?

And what has kept you on your toes all these years?

I know its not always rainbows and butterflies. So what has kept you holding on through the good times and the bad?

I know Logan and I haven't been together 5 plus years but i know that what we have is something strong. So I'm going to share my thoughts.

How did you know?

Logan and I were friends for 3 years before we even got together. He was the one that was always there for me when i needed someone. It was like he knew when i was down and needed a friend. Logan was always the one lifting me up and making look at the positive things. When Travis left me, Logan text me the same day to make sure that everything was okay, (not knowing what had went one). He was the one that would come over before and after school to see Connor (This was before we starting dating). When Logan and i starting dating i felt a feeling that i never felt before. For the first time i felt that someone loved me for who i was and what i did. I feel in love with Logan January 21, 2009, I know most people always say "I fell in love with him the day i met him" But for me i fell in love with me when he asked me to be his girlfriend. I knew this man for 3 years before we started dating. In that time i was getting to know who he really was and what he was like with me. I loved the way he wanted to be apart of Connor life, i loved that he didn't care that i was a single mom, I loved that he wanted to help with everything and anything, I loved that he wanted to go through that hard times with me, all he wanted to do was be in MINE and CONNOR life. I fell hard for him and still to this day i fall more in love with him. I knew he was the one for me when i knew he wanted to be in this for the long run. He didn't care about my pass he was ready for the future with the 3 of us

What Keeps Us On Our Toe's?

We have been together for 2 years. Those years haven't been the easiest for us. We are both so hard headed, and always wanted to be right. But in the last few months we have worked it out. We before would get in fights and just leave it at that, never talk about it. That was totally wrong for the both of us. We both now know that we need to talk about everything! We are really good at that now, i don't do anything without running it by him and he doesn't do anything without running it by with me. We just want the best for us and i think everyone needs to talk about everything big or small.

Also i think you need to have s normal date night. Logan and i still go out every month one the 21. I think everything relationship needs nights out with just the 2 of them. I always think we get stronger every date we go one. We talk about everything we are doing and things we don't like. I love those date nights with Logan it brings as closer.

Then i think we need to show our love. Weather its holding hands, kissing, saying you love them, sending a cute text or a simple smile. Logan doesn't like PDA. He is the kind of guy that will do everything when no one is around other then the two of us. That was hard for me to get used to. But i did it. He is always sending a cute text to me or whispering in my ear that he loves me and is the luckiest guy in the world. That how Logan will show he loves me. And i love that so much!

Honesty. I think this is the main thing in any relationship. Logan and i have always been up front with everything. We are always telling what happened and what it made us feel we never hold anything back..

What has kept you holding on through the good times and the bad?

The truth is my love for him keeps me going. I have a love for him that i can explain in words. The way he is with Connor makes me fall in love with him even more. He treat Connor like he was his own. Logan has been in Connor life from day one, and has stood by me with everything I've done. This is what keeps me holding on. With every fight we have been in at the end of the day when he is putting Connor into bed, i watch him give Connor a kiss on his for head and tell him " Daddy loves you little man". Its makes my heart melt all over again. His love of us keeps me going.

I would love to hear from all you guys who read my blog.

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I hope this all makes sense, its love and that's something to cant all explain in words. :)

♥